Shinji and Moon-won reveal marital friction five months after wedding

Singer Shinji and her husband Moon-won disclosed recent conflicts during a visit to a restaurant in Oido on the 14th. The couple, who married this past May, discussed how Moon-won went to sleep early after feeling hurt by Shinji's blunt tone during a movie.

Singer Shinji and her husband Moon-won have revealed unexpected conflicts in their newlywed life. The friction began with a minor argument that occurred while the couple was watching a movie together. Moon-won expressed feeling hurt by his wife's tone and went to sleep first, while Shinji admitted that her words have decreased at home due to work and stress. As the honest conversation of the couple, now five months into marriage, was made public, attention has turned to their daily lives.

On the 14th, a video titled "Seasonal blue crab and even large shrimp. The reason why you must go to Oido now" was uploaded to Shinji's YouTube channel 'Eotteosinji'. Shinji and Moon-won visited a restaurant in Oido to enjoy a meal. Shinji explained that when they had visited this location in the past with her husband, they had hesitated about whether to eat there and eventually left, making this their first time actually having a meal at the venue.

After ordering, Shinji brought up the events of the previous night. She stated that while the two were watching a movie together, Moon-won fell asleep first, leaving Shinji to watch the remainder of the film alone. Moon-won then confessed, "Actually, I was sulking, so I (went to sleep) first." He revealed that he did not simply fall asleep and miss the movie, but rather felt hurt by his wife.

Moon-won provided specific details regarding the situation. He explained that when he spoke to his wife, the response he received was "Do whatever you want," and although he asked why her tone was like that, Shinji denied it. Consequently, Moon-won stated he went to bed without further discussion. Conversely, Shinji explained that she reacted curtly because she wanted to focus on the movie while her husband kept talking to her. The two perceived the same situation through different emotions.

Shinji admitted that her lifestyle has changed since getting married. "Previously, I used to talk a lot about various things when I came home, but lately, my words have decreased when I return after finishing work," she said, noting that her husband seems to feel hurt by this. She explained that because she tries to hold back her words to avoid bringing the events and emotions experienced outside into the home, it may have been perceived as distance by her husband.

Moon-won's feelings went beyond simple hurt. He revealed that when his wife's word count decreases unlike her usual self, he worries if something is wrong. He confessed, "It is half feeling hurt and half feeling worried." While he was upset by Shinji's blunt reaction, he was also concerned that his wife might be dealing with difficult matters alone. Behind the conflict triggered by a minor tone of voice lay the struggles of a couple expressing emotions in different ways.

Shinji and Moon-won first met as DJ and guest on MBC Standard FM's 'Lee Yoon-seok and Shinji's Sing Sing Show'. After developing into a romantic couple, they faced various concerns and stories regarding Moon-won's divorce and whether he had children during the process of announcing their marriage. The two continued their relationship despite this interest and became a married couple after holding their wedding this past May.

Marriage is a process of facing differences in habits and emotions that were not fully known during dating. Shinji and Moon-won also experienced a clash between the desire to focus on a movie and the desire to converse, and between the attitude of trying to organize daily stress alone and the concern for a spouse's changes. While Moon-won's honest confession of "sulking and going to sleep first" drew laughter, attention is also focused on how the two will understand and adjust to each other's emotions.

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