July advises ELI's ex-wife Ji Yeon-soo on relationship hurdles

While broadcaster Ji Yeon-soo (46) shared her concerns regarding marriage and relationships, fortune teller July offered realistic advice, stating, "A tendency to quickly discover the flaws of others can become an obstacle in relationships."

In a video titled 'Ji Yeon-soo's Physiognomy: Can I Remarry?' released on her YouTube channel on the 20th, Ji met with July to discuss her life and future connections.

Reflecting on her past marriage, Ji candidly expressed her feelings, saying, "I wondered if the choices I made were wrong." However, she showed her determination for a new life, adding, "I don't regret it. I just hope to live a peaceful life without repeating the same choices."

In response, July analyzed Ji's personality, noting, "She has strong personal standards and relatively lacks flexibility."

He explained, "The person who enters the position of a husband appears to be a connection like a friend. When things are good, it is comfortable like a friendship, but the moment the relationship goes awry, there is enough energy to clash with one another."

In particular, July perceived that Ji's criteria for choosing a spouse are quite high.

When Ji asked, "Is there anyone in the position of a husband?", July replied, "The range of men who suit you is extremely narrow. Generally, while many people can live together if their compatibility score is around 50, you have a tendency to only accept a connection if they meet a standard of 70 to 75 or higher."

He continued, "Because of that, regardless of whether you marry, you are someone who must continue working. You have a lot of work to do and are highly active."

He also explained, "There is an energy in you that believes if the partner plays a certain role, you must contribute just as much. You prefer a relationship where you build something together rather than leaning on someone."

However, July advised Ji that she needs to adjust the standards she has set for herself in order to start a relationship.

He said, "You need to lower your standards a little when meeting men."

Ji revealed her current psychological state, saying, "I am not the type to open my heart easily. I also have a strong feeling of not wanting to create opportunities at all."

July provided a more direct analysis of why it is difficult for Ji to meet new connections.

He stated, "Fundamentally, you see others' flaws well and have a critical side. Therefore, you see many things that are bothersome about the other person, and once something weighs on your mind, you tend to push the relationship itself away."

He followed with advice: "Rather than trying to find a perfect person, there needs to be a process of complementing each other's deficiencies."

Ji married ELI, a former member of the group U-KISS, and has a son. The two married in 2014 but announced their divorce in 2020, and have since been leading their own lives. ELI recently announced news of his remarriage.

Ji has been communicating with the public through broadcasts and YouTube, steadily revealing her life after divorce, her concerns as a single mother, and her thoughts on a new beginning. This video also drew interest as it went beyond a simple question about the possibility of remarriage, serving as a time to reflect on the experiences gained from past relationships and the direction of her future life.